For those of you have read the romances of knights and ladies, there is always a sexual subtext. This has been taken and applied to Mary (generally known as “Our Lady” throughout the West).
But there is a risk. We will worship the created not the creator.
This holy season, fit to fast and pray,
Men to devotion ought to be inclin’d:
Therefore I likewise on so holy day,
For my sweet saint some service fit will find.
Her temple fair is built within my mind,
In which her glorious image placed is,
On which my thoughts do day and night attend,
Like sacred priests that never think amiss.
There I to her as th’ author of my bliss,
Will build an altar to appease her ire:
And on the same my heart will sacrifice,
Burning in flames of pure and chaste desire:
The which vouchsafe, O goddess, to accept,
Amongst thy dearest relics to be kept.Edmund Spenser
Love is wonderful and can be, at best, close to pure. But we are created. There are always undercurrents. This world is fallen. As Marvell put it:
And your quaint honour turn to dust,
And into ashes all my lust;
The grave’s a fine and private place,
But none, I think, do there embrace.
Now therefore, while the youthful hue
Sits on thy skin like morning dew,
And while thy willing soul transpires
At every pore with instant fires,
Now let us sport us while we may,
And now, like amorous birds of prey,
Rather at once our time devour
Than languish in his slow-chapped power.
Let us roll all our strength and all
Our sweetness up into one ball,
And tear our pleasures with rough strife
Through the iron gates of life:
Thus, though we cannot make our sun
Stand still, yet we will make him run.
Do not worship your beloved. Love her. Joyfully. Maritally.
Worship God. Lead her to Christ. And kneel there together.