Rudeness or Honesty?

Hezekiah was not necessarily a positive man. He was realistic. The empire of his time — Assyria — had destroyed 10 tribes of Israel and was now attacking Jerusalem and the two tribes that were left.

He did not listen to Oprah. He did not present a positive sight to his followers. He took the clothes and posture of mourning, and wrote a letter which describes the events to Isaiah, the prophet.

The letter, in fact, may have been sarcastic — Hezekiah said that Isaiah was to pray to his God, not their shared God.

2 Kings 19:1-20

1When King Hezekiah heard it, he tore his clothes, covered himself with sackcloth, and went into the house of the LORD. 2And he sent Eliakim, who was in charge of the palace, and Shebna the secretary, and the senior priests, covered with sackcloth, to the prophet Isaiah son of Amoz. 3They said to him, “Thus says Hezekiah, This day is a day of distress, of rebuke, and of disgrace; children have come to the birth, and there is no strength to bring them forth. 4It may be that the LORD your God heard all the words of the Rabshakeh, whom his master the king of Assyria has sent to mock the living God, and will rebuke the words that the LORD your God has heard; therefore lift up your prayer for the remnant that is left.” 5When the servants of King Hezekiah came to Isaiah, 6Isaiah said to them, “Say to your master, ‘Thus says the LORD: Do not be afraid because of the words that you have heard, with which the servants of the king of Assyria have reviled me. 7I myself will put a spirit in him, so that he shall hear a rumor and return to his own land; I will cause him to fall by the sword in his own land.’” 8The Rabshakeh returned, and found the king of Assyria fighting against Libnah; for he had heard that the king had left Lachish. 9When the king heard concerning King Tirhakah of Ethiopia, “See, he has set out to fight against you,” he sent messengers again to Hezekiah, saying, 10“Thus shall you speak to King Hezekiah of Judah: Do not let your God on whom you rely deceive you by promising that Jerusalem will not be given into the hand of the king of Assyria. 11See, you have heard what the kings of Assyria have done to all lands, destroying them utterly. Shall you be delivered? 12Have the gods of the nations delivered them, the nations that my predecessors destroyed, Gozan, Haran, Rezeph, and the people of Eden who were in Telassar? 13Where is the king of Hamath, the king of Arpad, the king of the city of Sepharvaim, the king of Hena, or the king of Ivvah?”

14Hezekiah received the letter from the hand of the messengers and read it; then Hezekiah went up to the house of the LORD and spread it before the LORD. 15And Hezekiah prayed before the LORD, and said: “O LORD the God of Israel, who are enthroned above the cherubim, you are God, you alone, of all the kingdoms of the earth; you have made heaven and earth. sup>16Incline your ear, O LORD, and hear; open your eyes, O LORD, and see; hear the words of Sennacherib, which he has sent to mock the living God. 17Truly, O LORD, the kings of Assyria have laid waste the nations and their lands, 18and have hurled their gods into the fire, though they were no gods but the work of human hands — wood and stone — and so they were destroyed. 19So now, O LORD our God, save us, I pray you, from his hand, so that all the kingdoms of the earth may know that you, O LORD, are God alone.”

At the second occasion there is less rudeness, but there is still honesty. There is a clear evaluation of the position that the kingdom of Judah is in.

There is no

  • Naming and claiming of promises
  • Stating that there is peace and victory, when defeat was staring him in the face.
  • Public calls that the nation was blessed, that he had a solution, and that things were under control.

Hezekiah, in other words, did not act like a politician or preacher in the modern era. He was defeatist. He was rude. He was honest. And he is commended for his faith, despite the difficulties he was in.

PS. Traditional Christianity is starting to read chronologically through the bible: the posts are well worth reading

You have to be medicated to be American Happy

Consider this:

Growing up and living in Germany, this was never a problem. In fact, most Germans consider me to be a cheerful, “think positive” type. But I have nothing on life-long American residents. Americans’ constant Hyper Happiness is depressing to me. Everything is always “fine”, they smile constantly, every setback is a “change for the better”. The facade is fully in place, the teeth in their perma-grin are perfect (must be the fluoridated water), and they are chipper to the dying end. They take the phrase “grin and bear it” to a whole new level.

Now consider part of today’s reading. I was debating adding more: for today the Assyrians are telling Hezekiah that the LORD cannot save him — and his courtiers arrived with their clothes torn by grief.

 Psalm 116:5-11

5 Gracious is the LORD, and righteous; our God is merciful.6 The LORD protects the simple; when I was brought low, he saved me.7 Return, O my soul, to your rest, for the LORD has dealt bountifully with you.8 For you have delivered my soul from death, my eyes from tears, my feet from stumbling.9 I walk before the LORD in the land of the living.10 I kept my faith, even when I said, “I am greatly afflicted”;11 I said in my consternation, “Everyone is a liar.”

via Daily Lectionary Readings — Devotions and Readings — Mission and Ministry — GAMC.

Something is really weird here. The Psalmist is not chipper. Things are not fine. He has troubles — today an American psychiatrist would say that he’s depressed.

It may be that instead he is appropriately worried. Things are not always going well. Your children are in trouble. Work has been difficult. Your health is not what is was. And (at least where I life) you might say “it’s OK” because you are polite, but you won’t look perfect.

But this requires that you tolerate grief, unhappiness, exhaustion, discouragement and get tempted by despair. To the average follower of Oprah this is not acceptable in the age of Seriotonin Reuptake inhibitors (with Bupoprion and Viagra if you get the inevitable sexual side effects). What the Americans call cyclothymic and treat I call normal.

My conclusion is that in their wish to meet the unobtainable idea of permanent happiness — which is unbiblical — they lie to each other. Medications hep this. American Happy is artificial — you need to be on something to be there.

Now, I spend most of my day working with the mad and despairing. They are really suffering. There is enough work there for every mental health worker in NZ.

We don’t need people trying to increase the number of people seeking help for what is, in reality, a normal mood.  The danger is that we will trivialise the living hell of melancholia in ths medicated seeking of a state that is completely artificial.

Do not falsely promise ease

Yesterday Terri wrote this:

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I argued. It’s my nature. I asked if we had become so afraid of lawyers. that even in jest, we have to tell people to test what we say and write.  Terri, Alte and Morticia are married. As a result, they write fairly consistently on the care and management of husbands, children, and the home: and they were inviting women in… to subvert the current bunch of false prophets. All power to them.

Matthew 7:13-21

13“Enter through the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the road is easy that leads to destruction, and there are many who take it. 14For the gate is narrow and the road is hard that leads to life, and there are few who find it.15“Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves. 16You will know them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thorns, or figs from thistles? 17In the same way, every good tree bears good fruit, but the bad tree bears bad fruit. 18A good tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a bad tree bear good fruit. 19Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. 20Thus you will know them by their fruits.21“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father in heaven.”

via Daily Lectionary Readings — Devotions and Readings — Mission and Ministry — GAMC.

There are minefields in this passage. There is a clear argument for limited atonement: there have been many who have talked about false prophets from a sectarian point of view

But the juxtaposition of a warning about the Christian walk being hard and false prophets struck me. I think that false prophets offer ease. They offer to take our guilt and place it elsewhere — on our mother (Post-Freudian psychotherapy: Freud blamed your father), on men (Feminism’s Patriarchy) on “Whitey” (Rev. Al Sharpton, Margeret Mutu). They say that there are ways one can pray, that allow for one to not struggle against sin, to avoid doing one’s duty, and not do good.

And the fruits of this are seen in any area that Race Hucksters run. Detroit is a warning, folks: if you follow these paths, destruction comes; if you seek perfection in others and happiness as a final goal, you will be disappointed, left bereft, and have your joy removed from you.

True joy comes from hard choices. Old wisdom, unacceptable to the modern elite, who falsely promise ease while the foundations of our society crumble.

A lower view of sex (& marriage).

Within the modern culture, getting married was the normal thing. The same thing applied in ancient times. In fact, it was virtually mandatory — raising children required both father and mother to put around 90 hours a week in… and it was best split between two people.

Victorian sentimentality elevated the feminine and domesticity, placing it on a pedestal, where Paul left the virgins, the single.

1 Corinthians 7:32-40

32 I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is anxious about the affairs of the Lord, how to please the Lord; 33but the married man is anxious about the affairs of the world, how to please his wife, 34and his interests are divided. And the unmarried woman and the virgin are anxious about the affairs of the Lord, so that they may be holy in body and spirit; but the married woman is anxious about the affairs of the world, how to please her husband. 35I say this for your own benefit, not to put any restraint upon you, but to promote good order and unhindered devotion to the Lord.36If anyone thinks that he is not behaving properly toward his fiancee, if his passions are strong, and so it has to be, let him marry as he wishes; it is no sin. Let them marry.

.39A wife is bound as long as her husband lives. But if the husband dies, she is free to marry anyone she wishes, only in the Lord. 40But in my judgment she is more blessed if she remains as she is. And I think that I too have the Spirit of God.

via Daily Lectionary Readings — Devotions and Readings — Mission and Ministry — GAMC.

Paul saw married life as hindering fervour and prayers. No wonder he said that you should remain single in this crisis. The apostolic life was hard — Peter did have a wife, but he did not travel as much. Paul would have had difficulty with his conscience if his wife and children where being flogged and in the stocks with him — and that happened in about every second area he tried to evangelize.

And… Paul saw getting married as a compromise you made because you were basically horny and could not be continent. The celibate are not looking for a relationship. They are looking for God. And God bless them — they are not at home with their cats. They are out doing good.

But. most of us are horny. Not many of us have the gift of celibacy (Calvin did, I don’t). And as Terri said, tamilies are the structure of our society, and families meen giving up rights.

I think your critique of traditionalism leaves out something key. It’s not that we are uninterested in men’s rights. We’re not all that interested in women’s rights, either. We are more concerned with what’s best for societal stability as a whole and believe that frankly, the idea that everything that makes people feel good or makes life easier is a right is a distasteful notion. To put it mildly. I’d just as soon see all the “rights” women have had bestowed upon us rolled back and return to a time where we all lived with the consequences of the choices we make, for better or worse.

Those with us with families are concerned about them and therefore our society. The Single can be radical, and confront us. We need both.

 

Do not worry about ephemera.

Last night the blockbuster movie was that paen to divorce and self worship Eat Pray Love. And on the other channel was… Rugby. Well the world cup is on. I watched the rugby: my sons (who hate rugby) lasted five minutes of EPL and then decided doing their homework was more interesting.

I now have a new use for chick flicks — getting the boys to do homework.

In the traditionalist area and in the manosphere there is much worry at the moment. Grerp notes that her friends are getting divorced

All of these women came from the exact same family background as I did: intact families with middle class incomes and college educations.  All of them grew up in safe neighborhoods, went to good schools, attended church.  And all of them are now toast financially.  Not just for now, for at least a decade into the future, probably decades.  Not because their jobs were outsourced or because they bet too much on derivatives or had a major medical event.  Because of divorce.  It is so depressing.  And their kids won’t even have the stability – financially, psychologically, or even possibly physically – that they had even. .

And Dalrock points out that divorce is like dragging your kids through the meat grinder. If you don’t believe that the middle class (working families) are hurting in the US from Grerps article then Bloomberg this morning reports

Under pressure from skeptical financial markets, the world’s economic powers are scrambling to keep Europe’s debt crisis from tumbling out of control.

Enough. The news is bleak. Our society is imploding as a result of the Alinskyites poisoning all our institutions.  And we are told two things again: don’t try to alter your situation, (but it is not a sin if you do) and don’t worry about ephemera.

1 Corinthians 7:25-31

25Now concerning virgins, I have no command of the Lord, but I give my opinion as one who by the Lord’s mercy is trustworthy. 26I think that, in view of the impending crisis, it is well for you to remain as you are. 27Are you bound to a wife? Do not seek to be free. Are you free from a wife? Do not seek a wife. 28But if you marry, you do not sin, and if a virgin marries, she does not sin. Yet those who marry will experience distress in this life, and I would spare you that. 29I mean, brothers and sisters, the appointed time has grown short; from now on, let even those who have wives be as though they had none, 30and those who mourn as though they were not mourning, and those who rejoice as though they were not rejoicing, and those who buy as though they had no possessions, 31and those who deal with the world as though they had no dealings with it. For the present form of this world is passing away.

Matthew 6:25-29

25“Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? 26Look at the birds of the air; they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? 27And can any of you by worrying add a single hour to your span of life? 28And why do you worry about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow; they neither toil nor spin, 29yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not clothed like one of these

via Daily Lectionary Readings — Devotions and Readings — Mission and Ministry — GAMC.

Son just asked what is more important: social welfare or economics (yes, it is just after breakfast. Geek household). When I said economics, he asked why the left worship social welfare and are ignorant about economics.

There is no answer to that apart from the the left being wilfully stupid. However, the answer Jesus says to Elisabeth Gilbert and all the flibbertigibbets who read her is: this world is in crisis, and this world is not all there is. Have faith. Don’t worry for tomorrow. Concentrate on doing good today.

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Aside

I have not had a good experience with social media. But I do use google a lot: it has saved my bacon a few times when phones get lost etc (one sync and all your android devices have their data automagically restored.

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Birthday Kirk.

One of the first things I did today was telephone my parents, who had sent me a package for today. As my son says, I can no longer say that I am a half century older. The odometer has clicked on.

To make life a little more interesting, today is the start of daylight saving in New Zealand, which means that my ability to work out what times things are in North America & Europe will be “out” for a week or so.

Today, Barry talked about a recent conference he had been at in the UK about Congregational growth. And when he heard from the UK (we went from four to eight people! The church is now a skateboard park and at least people are coming!!!) he tried to feel humble. Instead he was smug. In case you are wondering, this is a photo of Batch a couple of weeks ago.

Kirk kids talk

 

 

What Barry used as his text today was:

Philippians 2:1-41If then there is any encouragement in Christ, any consolation from love, any sharing in the Spirit, any compassion and sympathy, 2make my joy complete: be of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind. 3Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility regard others as better than yourselves. 4Let each of you look not to your own interests, but to the interests of others

This was to confront his feelings that he was running a perfectlyu successful little church. Look how it has grown, from 12 people we now fill the hall. Look what our people do.

Look at me boast, instead of thinking others were greater than me, and encouraging them…

 

 

But what does one do for encouragement? I’m 51, well and truly hit by the ugly stick, and reminded daily my my quite geeky and uncool progeny that I’m decrepit, old, and definately not with it. Well, there are two things that ere my duty: to be steadfast and to do good.

Psalm 108

1 My heart is steadfast, O God, my heart is steadfast; I will sing and make melody. Awake, my soul!2 Awake, O harp and lyre! I will awake the dawn.3 I will give thanks to you, O LORD, among the peoples, and I will sing praises to you among the nations.4 For your steadfast love is higher than the heavens, and your faithfulness reaches to the clouds.

Acts 9:36-39

36Now in Joppa there was a disciple whose name was Tabitha, which in Greek is Dorcas. She was devoted to good works and acts of charity. 37At that time she became ill and died. When they had washed her, they laid her in a room upstairs. 38Since Lydda was near Joppa, the disciples, who heard that Peter was there, sent two men to him with the request, “Please come to us without delay.” 39So Peter got up and went with them; and when he arrived, they took him to the room upstairs. All the widows stood beside him, weeping and showing tunics and other clothing that Dorcas had made while she was with them.

via Daily Lectionary Readings — Devotions and Readings — Mission and Ministry — GAMC.

We should be steadfast in the faith, and in doing good. As one moves on in life, this does not end. Dorcas may not have been a young woman — but she did good, and all the pauper women (for if you were a widow, no man would provide for you) wept — showing what they had been given by her.

We should steadfastly encourage, defending the younger when they are doing good and making errors (for if we do anything, we will make errors. We are not God), to being open handed, generous (of money, prayer and time). I’m not that good at this — I provide for my family but tend not to be as hospitable as I ought.

And we should not see the newbies as below us. Instead, their fervour should encourage our fervour. None of us are without faults. None of us are perfect. And when we reflect on even the broken beauty of this world. We should be humbled, and give God the Glory.

UPDATE

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Equality and contentment.

Today is Saturday. Which means that I am the taxi service: music lessons, friends to pick up and take to other places, groceries to get. Saturday gets busy. It’s a consequence of my situation — raising two teenage boys by myself. Things that have been left over the week need to be sorted.

And some things can wait. The guttering needs clearing — there is grass growing in parts — but the forecast is correct. Snow is coming. And that can be sorted out once we truly have spring.

Paul would argue that we are placed where we are to do good. And Jesus asks where we hold our treasure.

1 Corinthians 7:17-24

17However that may be, let each of you lead the life that the Lord has assigned, to which God called you. This is my rule in all the churches. 18Was anyone at the time of his call already circumcised? Let him not seek to remove the marks of circumcision. Was anyone at the time of his call uncircumcised? Let him not seek circumcision. 19Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing; but obeying the commandments of God is everything. 20Let each of you remain in the condition in which you were called.

21Were you a slave when called? Do not be concerned about it. Even if you can gain your freedom, make use of your present condition now more than ever. 22For whoever was called in the Lord as a slave is a freed person belonging to the Lord, just as whoever was free when called is a slave of Christ. 23You were bought with a price; do not become slaves of human masters. 24In whatever condition you were called, brothers and sisters, there remain with God.

 

Matthew 6:19-21

19“Do not store up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust consume and where thieves break in and steal; 20but store up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust consumes and where thieves do not break in and steal. 21For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

via Daily Lectionary Readings — Devotions and Readings — Mission and Ministry — GAMC.

Now, over in the markets, there is doom and gloom. There are people arguing for re regulation, in the belief that, like Canute, they can somehow halt the tide. It demonstrates that only a fool believes a paper bank balance, and a wise man mistrusts his count of gold. For wealth is not permanent. It is what we do with what we have that matters.

Our treasure should be the people of God, and the glory of God, not cold gold. Let’s not forget, that from God’s perspective we are all desperately weak, poor, and broken. None of us are rich. All of us need mercy.

So let’s not worry over-much about the markets. Let’s think about each other, and if the roof is not leaking, there is food in the pot and clothes on our back let us be content.

Curses are risky. Rules are useful.

This is a follow on from yesterday’s post. Jesus gave us some advice about prayer, and it is to avoid the Christainese jargon, and to speak plainly.

Matthew 6:7-15

7“When you are praying, do not heap up empty phrases as the Gentiles do; for they think that they will be heard because of their many words. 8Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.

9“Pray then in this way: Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name.10 Your kingdom come. Your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven.11 Give us this day our daily bread.12 And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.13 And do not bring us to the time of trial, but rescue us from the evil one.

14For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you; 15but if you do not forgive others, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

via Daily Lectionary Readings — Devotions and Readings — Mission and Ministry — GAMC.

We can speak plainly because of our relationship with God. God knows our needs. God delegates to is the power “of the keys” to forgive — being aware that if we do not forgive, we will not be forgiven.

It follows that cursing is not smart. In his teaching, Jesus noted that if you called someone a fool (minimal translation” “Raca” would be better translated as “Fuckwit”) then it is as if you murdered him — in the same way that looking with lust at a woman is the equivalent of adultery. So Cursing people is risky. Remember Balaam. He was hired to curse — but the Spirit of God took over and he blessed. Our prayers are not for hire.

On the issue of sexual lust, Paul had some very blunt advice tor the Corinthians: Marry and make love.

1 Corinthians 7:1-9

1Now concerning the matters about which you wrote: “It is well for a man not to touch a woman.” 2But because of cases of sexual immorality, each man should have his own wife and each woman her own husband. 3The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does; likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5Do not deprive one another except perhaps by agreement for a set time, to devote yourselves to prayer, and then come together again, so that Satan may not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.6This I say by way of concession, not of command. 7I wish that all were as I myself am. But each has a particular gift from God, one having one kind and another a different kind.

8To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is well for them to remain unmarried as I am. 9But if they are not practicing self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to be aflame with passion.

The irony is that the Corinthian elders, living in the most sexually diverse and perverse city in a perverse empire, were arguing celibacy. Paul argued for marriage. But not Marriage 2.0 — where the woman is allowed to control the rate of sex and claim rape whenever sex is inconvenient.  Instead, you give the rights of your body up when you marry. You belong. literally, to your spouse.

And this is offensive to the current neo-pagan priestesses. They do not want to have sex unless they damn well want to. As a result, their husbands are burning with lust (and the pornographers are getting richer). The churches teaching is more humane. Most of us lust. So most of us should marry.

Looking at both texts, it’s fairly clear that the appearance of piety is less important to God than the reality of our actions and relationships. We cannot be saved by our actions, but our actions are how we should adjudge if a person is of God. Not by their pious words.

 

On Prayer (a series of stumbles)

When it comes to the topic of prayer, I consider myself no natural. There are people who loudly proclaim their prayers, who are fluent, who talk about their prayer lists, answered prayers.

I’m sitting in the corner croaking.  I am not good at this: I’m better at study. So I have but two comments, and they are both in the text.

Psalm 143

1 Hear my prayer, O LORD; give ear to my supplications in your faithfulness; answer me in your righteousness.2 Do not enter into judgment with your servant, for no one living is righteous before you.3 For the enemy has pursued me, crushing my life to the ground, making me sit in darkness like those long dead.4 Therefore my spirit faints within me; my heart within me is appalled.5 I remember the days of old, I think about all your deeds, I meditate on the works of your hands.6 I stretch out my hands to you; my soul thirsts for you like a parched land

Matthew 6:1-6,

1“Beware of practising your piety before others in order to be seen by them; for then you have no reward from your Father in heaven.

2“So whenever you give alms, do not sound a trumpet before you, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, so that they may be praised by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward. 3But when you give alms, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, 4so that your alms may be done in secret; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you.

5“And whenever you pray, do not be like the hypocrites; for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and at the street corners, so that they may be seen by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward. 6But whenever you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret; and your Father who sees in secret will reward you.

via Daily Lectionary Readings — Devotions and Readings — Mission and Ministry — GAMC.

The first comment is that croaking is normal. The Psalmist is troubled by enemies and affliction, he is aware of his sin, and he asks for deliverance. In doing this, he is honest with God and himself. Life is not a box of fluffy unicorns. His enemies are about to destroy him. And he turns to God. We have to allow the full range of emotions in our life, and that includes in prayer.

The second point is that what we do in private is what matters. The public prayers were described as acting out their piety to some standard that the world has for religious people. Now, there is nothing bad about prayer in public, or alms in public — but the things people do not know about define us. Therefore, we should not be intimidated by Sister Sally with her pious psycho-babble as a substitute for prayer.

God values our honest croaking.