It is not about what they feel.

I was in the tea room this week talking to one of my fellow academics and referred to my personal blog where my odd combination of reformed theology and libertarian politics. He replied that he was socialists. Good guy, Means well, but like the Salvation Army, he’s making a mistake.

We have two clear choices here: one is to continue the path we have been on more or less continuously for the past three decades, concentrating wealth and influence, and driving the marginalised further into the shadows, with yet more restrictive welfare entitlements and a yet more punitive criminal justice system. The other is to act more inclusively and to work consciously and deliberately at ways of ensuring that the most marginalised New Zealanders, and in particular, many poor families and unemployed young people, feel as though they are valued and valuable members of our society.’— from the Foreword, by Major Campbell Roberts, director of the Social Policy and Parliamentary Unit.

This brings me to one of the conversations that I had with another colleague. This one is working on strengths models… and we were talking about self esteem “you are good, you are great” as not very useful, but pride at achievements is useful. The idea of the strengths model is that you DO something. Probably difficult. That you hate. Then when you have done it, there is a sense of achievement. Sitting on you bottom, doing nothing, leaves you feeling marginalised, and patronised by the very left who say that they are your saviour.

The cure for marginalisation is work. Work comes if there is minimal regulation (there is a balance between letting people set up businesses and hire people and safe working & living conditions. If you make hiring a person risky, firms will avoid hiring. Locally, at least. For example, Macpac and Kathmandu now make all their (locally designed) bags and clothes in china. The only group that don’t that I know of are Cactus Climbing, who make excellent gear.

There is one place where the Salvos have got it correct: we pay the CEOs of the various government departments at commercial rates. This is wrong. They cannot be sacked at will, and their department is not allowed to fail. We pay commercial CEOs highly … for their time in power is short. It will end at the second  bad quarterly report.  And commercial enterprises grow wealth. The government is more like an essential parasite.

For it is not how we feel. We are allowed to feel powerless and despair.

Psalm 56:1-4

1   Be gracious to me, O God, for people trample on me;   all day long foes oppress me; 2   my enemies trample on me all day long,  for many fight against me.  O Most High,3 when I am afraid,  I put my trust in you.     In God, whose word I praise,   in God I trust; I am not afraid;   what can flesh do to me?

Now the poor will always be here. There are some people who simply don’t have the drive or the skills to service a large mortgage, and use their wages to pay rent. There will be those who lose the ability to work from illness age and accident. But we need to care for these people, not set up evil processes in the hope of doing some good.

1 John 3:11-18

11For this is the message you have heard from the beginning, that we should love one another. 12We must not be like Cain who was from the evil one and murdered his brother. And why did he murder him? Because his own deeds were evil and his brother’s righteous.13Do not be astonished, brothers and sisters, that the world hates you. 14We know that we have passed from death to life because we love one another. Whoever does not love abides in death. 15All who hate a brother or sister are murderers, and you know that murderers do not have eternal life abiding in them. 16We know love by this, that he laid down his life for us – and we ought to lay down our lives for one another. 17How does God’s love abide in anyone who has the world’s goods and sees a brother or sister in need and yet refuses help? 18Little children, let us love, not in word or speech, but in truth and action.

Again, it is not feelings that are the measure of if the poor and oppressed are helped. It is actions. it is food, shelter. It is supported work. It is appropriate medical care. And, in these times of governments going bankrupt (or being, in effect, bankrupt) we cannot expect to fund this by printing worthless money. I expect the social welfare state will fail — because the unfunded entitlements promised are so great even draconian taxation laws will not raise sufficient to pay the needy.

This has to be done locally. It needs to be practical. It will not be about feelings. It will be about food. Do not trust the political princes of this age, for they sitting on a pile of credit cards, swapping money from one to another, and hoping it does not fall during this parliament, this government.

Institutionalised Christophobia.

Let’s start with a little taste of sarcasm this morning. Gabriella says… (about the current US administration).

It is really quite genius of him. What is a more appropriate place to wage war on the Church than by defending the inalienable right to consequence-free sex? It is the surest way to get all the women on his side and most of the men.

This brings me back to the antichrist again, or in this case, antichrist. There is a sense among the elite that Christianity is Victorian, passe. That the church is sexist. But let us continue with John…

1 John 3:1-10

1See what love the Father has given us, that we should be called children of God; and that is what we are. The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. 2Beloved, we are God’s children now; what we will be has not yet been revealed. What we do know is this: when he is revealed, we will be like him, for we will see him as he is. 3And all who have this hope in him purify themselves, just as he is pure.

4Everyone who commits sin is guilty of lawlessness; sin is lawlessness. 5You know that he was revealed to take away sins, and in him there is no sin. 6No one who abides in him sins; no one who sins has either seen him or known him. 7Little children, let no one deceive you. Everyone who does what is right is righteous, just as he is righteous. 8Everyone who commits sin is a child of the devil; for the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The Son of God was revealed for this purpose, to destroy the works of the devil. 9Those who have been born of God do not sin, because God’s seed abides in them; they cannot sin, because they have been born of God. 10The children of God and the children of the devil are revealed in this way: all who do not do what is right are not from God, nor are those who do not love their brothers and sisters

Now, there is a tendency to move into the error of the Holiness movement. We are impure. We sin. But we neither pretend that without Christ we are worthy to approach God, nor do we hide our sin but daily confess it and turn again… one day at a time.

And we do not promote sin. Every man is aware there are consequences for sexual activity. If you sleep with a woman, you have to be willing to support any child that comes from that act (and in our feminist driven law system, you have no choice about accepting this). I will not continue to discuss diseases, civil charges (harassment) and what Dalrock called the nuclear option of unilateral divorce.

Our elite now hate Christians. They love homosexuality, minorities, and paradoxically Islam (which hates and in fact kills homosexuals when they have sharia law). We live in a time if Institutionalised Christophobia.

But the elite forget this is nothing new. The Romans hated the Church. The Angles and Saxons killed missionaries. But the Church is Gods, and God is bigger than any of us.

Reliability in research matters.

One of the things I have just done is out myself, by linking explicitly to my university profile. The fact I blog as a reformed tory is no great secret. But it means that I can talk a little more about the science part of the title.

Ingvild M Tollefsen, Erlend Hem and Oivind Ekeberg have just systematically reviewed all studies on the reliability of suicide statistics. This is not a trivial question. One of the outcomes that clinicians try to avoid when dealing with those who are mad or in despair is suicide. The rate is much higher in psychiatric patients than the general population. There is a entire literature on the variability of suicude rates by country and over time.

What these authors, claim however, is that the official statistics are unreliable, and tend to under report.

SUmmary table from BMC Psychiatry

One of the basic issues in epidemiology is reliability. Your statistics may not be valid — I’d argue, for instance, that the US race classification is not valid — but they need to be reliable. You can’t have validity without reliability. It looks like the human bias to call suicide anything but (and avoid the shame of this event) is hiding the problem from populations, and not allowing researchers to be certain about anything. Clear, reliable data helps generate hypotheses, whcih can then be tested and out of the detritus of failed explanations we winnow out truth.

But without reliability, the scientific method does not have much power. We are all running blind. We cannot suggest ways to improve what we measure poorly. This paper confronts us all: the institutionalised practice of silence hurts the living, because we cannot learn from the tragedies of the past.

Reliability of measures matters. Methodology matters. And anyone who claims to be working in the social sciences and tells you otherwise is a fool or a liar.

Tests of the Antichrist.

No clever comments this morning, for this passage is serious.

1 John 2:18-29

18Children, it is the last hour! As you have heard that antichrist is coming, so now many antichrists have come. From this we know that it is the last hour. 19They went out from us, but they did not belong to us; for if they had belonged to us, they would have remained with us. But by going out they made it plain that none of them belongs to us. 20But you have been anointed by the Holy One, and all of you have knowledge. 21I write to you, not because you do not know the truth, but because you know it, and you know that no lie comes from the truth. 22Who is the liar but the one who denies that Jesus is the Christ? This is the antichrist, the one who denies the Father and the Son. 23No one who denies the Son has the Father; everyone who confesses the Son has the Father also. 24Let what you heard from the beginning abide in you. If what you heard from the beginning abides in you, then you will abide in the Son and in the Father. 25And this is what he has promised us, eternal life.

26I write these things to you concerning those who would deceive you. 27As for you, the anointing that you received from him abides in you, and so you do not need anyone to teach you. But as his anointing teaches you about all things, and is true and is not a lie, and just as it has taught you, abide in him. 28And now, little children, abide in him, so that when he is revealed we may have confidence and not be put to shame before him at his coming.29If you know that he is righteous, you may be sure that everyone who does right has been born of him.

Now, we have the ability to choose. God knows us, and intervenes, because by nature we would choose the evil and perverse sufficiently to corrupt ourselves. Within the Church there are those who are against the church. Some have declared themselves and left: they at least have a remnant of honesty. Others are there poisoning the conversations and corrupting the holy.

So what are the signs.

  1. They have become apostate.
  2. They deny that Jesus is the Christ. That is why the liberal church is dying — it is anti-christian and the spirit will not remain with the anti-christian. To those who are within a liberal congregation the text is always the same: Flee Babylon.  Find a congregation where the word is preached.
  3. There is no denominational brand that prevents this. It can happen to the Catholics. It can happen among the Reformed. It happens frequently among the followers of Arminius (Methodists) and the Pentecostals. The sheep need to watch the shepherds and test their words.
  4. Our job is to remain in Christ. There is no new teaching. There is but Christ.

We need to pray for the leaders of our churches as they are gathered — from Ratzinger to whoever is the moderator of the Presbyterian assembly this year. They have to not only guide the rest of us, but weed out these blots, these thorns, these corrupters. It is one of the reasons the office of the inquisition existed within the Catholic Church.

For the Church is Christ’s and if we can confront a person who is anti-Christian with Christ so that he repents, heaven itself  rejoices.

 

“Ooh shiny!” is not that wise

This morning the news is not exactly joyful. There has been a series of terror attacks, one of which was clearly performed by a Persian man, against Israeli targets. In the Herald, there is an illiterate, entitled screed from Harawira — that most noxious of the treatifarians, which I will not link to. And while Europe freezes and Australia floods, NZ has just got dull weather.

Last night my son decided to tell a story about a camera I found second hand when on holiday. It was in very good order, cleaned and adjusted, and well priced. But the budget was straining, so I walked away. But son, every time I went past the shop, reminded me to go in and check it.

I’m paying the bills. It took some prayer not to get that toy, but the money was needed elsewhere. For school uniforms. Besides the score in this life is not the toys you get.

1 John 2:12-17

12I am writing to you, little children, because your sins are forgiven on account of his name. 13I am writing to you, fathers, because you know him who is from the beginning. I am writing to you, young people, because you have conquered the evil one. 14I write to you, children, because you know the Father. I write to you, fathers, because you know him who is from the beginning. I write to you, young people, because you are strong and the word of God abides in you, and you have overcome the evil one.

15Do not love the world or the things in the world. The love of the Father is not in those who love the world; 16for all that is in the world – the desire of the flesh, the desire of the eyes, the pride in riches – comes not from the Father but from the world. 17And the world and its desire are passing away, but those who do the will of God live forever.

The first thing that I find difficult in this passage is that John tells those who are of the faity — who are strong, and have the truth, and have overcome (in Christ) the evil one — not to love the world.

For we live in the world, and it is at times beautifully glorious.  And there is nothing wrong with enjoying this. We are not ascetics. But neither are we Gnostics, believing that the spiritual is all that matters. But that of the world — pride of possession ( I memorized this years ago as pride of life which I think gives a sense that it is achievements and things — the desire (again, I memorized this as lust of the eyes) to have that which is new or shiny, or to live the secular ideal of gym. tailored suits, wine, women and a coop apartment on the Upper East Side expressed in most advertisements throughout our lives.

Some time ago. I wrote that we need to cone down what we listen to and look at when we are married. We need to be fundamentally about God, then our spouse, then our children. I haven’t changed my mind.

Hollywood tempts us with glitz, beauty, glamour Hermes Bags (for girls) and Mechanical watches (for boys). Men like their toys, women their clothes*. But they are immaterial. People matter. God matters. In the end our possessions will be like the toys of our childhood we put away.

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* Yes, I know not all women like clothes and shopping, and not all men like shiny pieces of optical equipment. But the pattern is that we are all, like magpies, attracted to the new, the shiny, and the sparkly

 

The deconstruction of treatifarians.

 

I have to thank the Gravedodger for pointing to Cam’s place, where one of the commentators asked simply how the current elite allowed Brian McDonnell to post this. He has invented a new term Treatifarian: a person who looks at old documents and legal precedents to rewrite history backwards so that they gain an income and/or control of resources.

However, instead of being seen as an object of historical study or as a source document for assisting contemporary formulations of ethnic relations, the Treaty has instead in recent decades been raised to an altogether higher status by some Maori activists and Pakeha sympathisers whom I (only semi-facetiously) term as “Treatifarians”.

These people would like it to be seen virtually as a sacred text and adopted unmodified as the pre-eminent foundation document of our nation: a compendium of Magna Carta, the Provisions of Oxford, the US Constitution and the Declaration of Independence. Treatifarians approach the Treaty as Holy Writ to be subjected to exegesis by a high priesthood.

The Treaty, they assert, can help “unwrite” subsequent history and reinstate Maori back to the level of equality of power enjoyed in 1840. This project creates a redemptive history in which the elevated Treaty performs an almost messianic function: To save the country’s present-day population from the wrongs of its colonial past. Such wrongs are inarguably very real, especially in the loss of land, and I am all for specific cases being addressed fairly. But the process must not resemble a cargo cult.

Now, Maori do very badly in New Zealand. Interestingly, they do well in Australia. In a similar manner, West Indian Blacks (Afro-Caribbeans) do very badly in England but do quite well in Canada. Some minorities that were actively oppressed and discriminated against, such as Chinese in New Zealand prior to 1920 or Indians in Fiji, do very well. Others, who have enshrined status (Maori or Malays in Malaysia) do poorly.

It seems that being told one is oppressed and that one will get justice eventually is bad for you. It does not really matter which group you belong to: if you believe every one is racist, sexist, or part of the 1%. Trying to get what you want by regulation, litigation, legislation or simply making people guilty hurts you, and is not sustainable (the group you are leeching on will eventually either die or crush you). Standing on your own two feet however, benefits you and your family.

In addition, unearned income is bad for you. Being dependent on the state generally leads to disintegration of the family and increased sickness, crime, unemployment — sometimes euphemistically called a decreased quality of live.  Being dependent on a family trust has also shortened lives — as these people also are shielded from the bad choices they make. As Cam says

The creation of treatifarians and the broracracy is now at a critical junction…we either continue forward creating a situation haves and have nots in Maoridom perpetrated the preference by government in dealing with formal iwi goupings or as the treaty grievance process winds up we find another way forward that brings all Maori into the fold of contributing citizens

They can blame someone else, and they can go to someone else to be rescued.  Many of us hold Trustafarans in contempt. We should hold those who preach Treatifarianism in greater contempt, for they close the door to independence to many, instead of opening the doors to opportunity.

For there is no pot of gold. There is no cargo cult. We cannot undo history. What we can do is refuse to accept the idea that we can get something for no effort.

Besides, living well and helping your enemy is better. For you, anyway.

Today is no feast day. It is Feb. 14.

Today is Valentine’s day, but the three martyrs whom this day was named after are long missing from the current legends. The day is no longer in the Church calendar. Wikipedia notes.

In the 1969 revision of the Roman Catholic Calendar of Saints, the feast day of Saint Valentine on February 14 was removed from the General Roman Calendar and relegated to particular (local or even national) calendars for the following reason: “Though the memorial of Saint Valentine is ancient, it is left to particular calendars, since, apart from his name, nothing is known of Saint Valentine except that he was buried on the Via Flaminia on February 14.”[14] The feast day is still celebrated in Balzan (Malta) where relics of the saint are claimed to be found, and also throughout the world by Traditionalist Catholics who follow the older, pre-Second Vatican Council calendar. February 14 is also celebrated as St Valentine’s Day in other Christian denominations; it has, for example, the rank of ‘commemoration’ in the calendar of the Church of England and other parts of the Anglican Communion

The Reformed calendar is stripped more bare than the Anglicans, who celebrate, for instance the death of Charles I. But the reformed noted that this date was conflated with the troubadour ideas of courtly love and smacked of not only Papism but paganism. So it disappeared from the calendar,

Anyway, today is a day where you are supposed to declare your secret love. Where girls cry because they got no cards, and boys are sad because their gifts are rejected.  I do not see much fun in this day, instead I see pain, hurt, and commercial exploitation. And today I am thankful the boys go to a single sex school. There will be no hearts given out there today.

Today I am thinking more of the grandaughter, in Canada, where this meme is rampant, and where the making of these things is seen as a nice craft activity. I pray that she will not be harmed, for there is enough pain in that family at present. It is a horrible day for my daughter, for her husband is very unwell. For them, Valentines Day, this year, has barbs.

But  God is more merciful than this.

Psalm 103:6-14

The LORD works vindication and justice for all who are oppressed.
7   He made known his ways to Moses,  his acts to the people of Israel.
8   The LORD is merciful and gracious, slow to anger and abounding in steadfast love.
9   He will not always accuse,   nor will he keep his anger for ever.
10  He does not deal with us according to our sins, nor repay us according to our iniquities.
11  For as the heavens are high above the earth, so great is his steadfast love toward those who fear him;
12  as far as the east is from the west,   so far he removes our transgressions from us.
13  As a father has compassion for his children,  so the LORD has compassion for those who fear him.
14  For he knows how we were made;  he remembers that we are dust.

For none of us are adequate. None of us are perfect. Courtly love is a convenient lie: it makes our lust into an idol as we define that woman as perfect because we see her as beautiful. There is a person is a person under that skin, who wants to be accepted, as Christ accepted us, flaws and all — and then be allowed and ecnouraged to grind the flaws away. The reason marriage is a holy estate is that it forces us to change, to think of our spouse, and moderate our quirks, faults and irritability for the sake of their feelings and our children.

There is not much romance in that hard work. But there is something deeper — and if it gets destroyed, as our no fault divorce does time and time again, something breaks.  This society is damaging women and men. The fun is gone. We are left with broken, suspicious, and isolated.

Let the romantics grieve. Their time is past. Today is Feb. 14. Let the commercial world do otherwise. We can enjoy this as an ordinary day, or turn it into a time of hurt.

Strip back the precedents and regulations.

I’m finding at the moment that I am splitting the comments on what I find with the lectionary posts. Kirk yesterday was about the need to be in a position of worship in prayer.  Not to be just asking for more (which is like what happens with our rulers — we want more but we don’t want to pay).  Now the pastor had been concerned that Jesus had walked past people and left them alone when he healed tPeter’s mother. I reminded him that it was the Sabbath. Good, observant Jews did no work on the Sabbath, and healing was work. They therefore waited to sunset, when the Sabbath ended, and bought everyone there.

But Jesus is Lord of the Sabbath, not the Pharisees with their precedent and regulations.

John 9:1-16

1As he walked along, he saw a man blind from birth. 2His disciples asked him, “Rabbi, who sinned, this man or his parents, that he was born blind?” 3Jesus answered, “Neither this man nor his parents sinned; he was born blind so that God’s works might be revealed in him. 4We must work the works of him who sent me while it is day; night is coming when no one can work. 5As long as I am in the world, I am the light of the world.” 6When he had said this, he spat on the ground and made mud with the saliva and spread the mud on the man’s eyes, 7saying to him, “Go, wash in the pool of Siloam” (which means Sent). Then he went and washed and came back able to see. 8The neighbors and those who had seen him before as a beggar began to ask, “Is this not the man who used to sit and beg?” 9Some were saying, “It is he.” Others were saying, “No, but it is someone like him.” He kept saying, “I am the man.” 10But they kept asking him, “Then how were your eyes opened?” 11He answered, “The man called Jesus made mud, spread it on my eyes, and said to me, ‘Go to Siloam and wash.’ Then I went and washed and received my sight.” 12They said to him, “Where is he?” He said, “I do not know.”

13They brought to the Pharisees the man who had formerly been blind. 14Now it was a sabbath day when Jesus made the mud and opened his eyes. 15Then the Pharisees also began to ask him how he had received his sight. He said to them, “He put mud on my eyes. Then I washed, and now I see.” 16Some of the Pharisees said, “This man is not from God, for he does not observe the sabbath.”

The first point here is that being blind was not karma, or a curse on the family. The man was born blind… so that he could be healed. Christ is LORD, and this man was born so this would be made apparent. The superstitions we have about the sins of our parents affecting our children or that we are paying now for previous lives are tosh, Rubbish.

The second is one of thest things we struggle with in the Church. For many of us are like the Pharisees: in our passion to do right we make rules, regulations, and precedents. These bind the people of God — they kill life, for they hold the Spirit in contempt. As a result, in many generations, there has been a return to the roots — from the monastic reforms to Luther stripping his churches bare.  The querulousness of the scholastics lives in us all.

And Jesus ignores this, He heals on the Sabbath — because that is what his father does. This is a theological status, like eating sausage on Friday, It is one of the reasons why the Reformed turn to scripture as the definitive rule, and not to the church fathers and tradition.

Over the last two centuries we have learnt — in mission field and concentration camp — to strip the faith back. To hold to life, and let traditions that hold us back go. We must not forget that, for the respite that Christendom has had from Socailism has ended, and the current oppressor (Miliant Islam) is allying itself with the remnants of socailism. We may have to hide the candles, use rough wine, and hide our crosses.

But the church will survive. The enemy will not, nor will our regulations. Christ is the Lord and law of the chuch, not (praise God) committees of the presbytery or canon lawyers.

Don’t Live in Auckland… yet again.

The Herald today starts with something that sounds like it was written when I was a schoolboy in short pants.

Higher petrol prices, road tolls and even a rise in GST are being dangled in front of Aucklanders as options to pay for a $2.4 billion inner-city rail loop and other transport projects.

Mayor Len Brown today releases a long-awaited discussion paper on transport funding options to stop dodging what he says are the tough decisions to get Auckland moving.

“We just can’t do the same old, same old and just meander along and postpone everything to another generation,” he said.

“We know what we have got to do, but that requires Aucklanders putting some real skin in the game.”

Mr Brown said Aucklanders – faced with a rapidly growing population and an already congested roading network – had to make some hard decisions to meet a $10-15 billion shortfall for a package of major transport projects over the next 30 years.

This is on top of $50 billion of largely road-user charges and rates budgeted to be spent on transport over 30 years.

When I was a kid the Mayor wanted to (this was 40 odd years ago, I remember it)  build a rapid rail system and develop Auckland along that (which is the way London developed: the suburbs followed the railways. The tramways were being torn up and motorways were being built.  It appears that this could occur in my grandchildrens time, but only if Auckland can tax its inhabitants.

The problem is that Auckland city has special legislation… which I can see being extended, and every region doing the same thing. But this is another reason not to live there.

Moving to the Waikato or Northland… or even to the South Island, will be an option. Because people’s wages will not increase to meet these new imposts.

Occupy? Meh.

The great and good Bill Price has an excellent article about how women are complaining that they are losing jobs (as the state goes bankrupt) while men are getting the jobs that are going, because they are dirty, hard and dangerous. What women forget is that men have had to always do this. This is a testimony from Jim Rawles site, but it makes the point.

So how can I sum it up. a) If you desire a retreat property in your current state then keep your city job and move as far in the direction of your imaginary retreat as your finances and time considerations will allow you to commute. or b) If your state is likely to become a meat grinder after TSHTF then act now! Apply for jobs in another state, remembering the three D’s. Dirty, Dangerous or Dull. Take the pay cut if you have to. Maybe you can apply for jobs with a large store chain that will be willing to shuffle you to another store location as soon as you can make up a believable excuse for your move. In either case, once you’re an hour or so out of the nearest city (make it as small a city as possible) you can look for work locally. Then, once you’ve got that local work then you can move even farther out. BTW, just to be clear, “an hour out of the city” means an hour of travel beyond where the houses have given way to trees or pasture.

“But nobody out in the country will employ me”, I hear you say. That depends entirely on your outlook. As times get tougher out here in the country a lot of people are doing the opposite of what the average SurvivalBlog reader is trying to do. They’re moving to the city where they can find higher paying jobs! They don’t want to downsize their living arrangements so they’re going where the money is. That’s why half my weekends are spent at garage sales. There are jobs to be had out here but there’s a proviso: You have to want it more than the next guy! I got a job, partly by luck in coming across the advertisement just in time, but also because when I turned up for the interview they could tell just by looking at me that I was dead serious about my application. I wanted the job, and what’s more, I would work hard to keep it. Six months later my references now speak for themselves and in a place where everyone knows everyone else, references are everything.

If it comes down to it, it is just a job. It is not the great source of meaning for your life. The family counts more. This man has moved further than I have, but I’d rather live in Dunedin and be able to help my son learn the school play music than be in Auckland sitting in a car, or be in Australia away from him. The money, by the way, would be better in Auckland and much, much better in Australia.

At the moment, I have close relatives seriously ill. Some of the commentators here have been struggling with various afflictions. There are many who are laid off. The situation in Greece is worse, and Iran and Israel look at loggerheads. Salafists are killing Christians, and there are too many children homeless.

These things occupy the grown ups. But the feminists, who never grew up, instead are protesting about valentines day. Well they are making a few errors.

  1. Most men would be glad to dump the day. It is one continual test. We are expected to divine the wishes of women who feel they have demands on us. Lie in and tea in bed while I make breakfast for the kids and/or you have a quiet bath while we go to the park? Sure. Hand made cards from the kids? Great. Hallmark? Meh. In fact nausea.
  2. There are more important issues for women and no, I do not mean abortion. I do mean female genital mutilation, safe working conditions for manual labourers and high risk jobs, access to weapons (and safe, policed, streets) and a lack of barriers to training. Flexible employment and the ability to choose not to work (ie. houses that a family can afford to rent or buy on one average family, not two or three) when children are small would help.
  3. You cannot “occupy” a time. You can boycott it, but you cannot camp on it. It is not a place. Besides, most of us have to do things. Like work.

In short, the stupid young females who thought this up should take their energy and let some older, wiser women work out ways to apply that energy. Perhaps committing to a job, to a marriage, to a family… would give them a sense of perspective. For this movement comes out of the land of unicorn farts, not real life.