Topic of the conversation is female on male violence. And how you cannot defend yourself, even if your life is at risk. You will be arrested. If you are lucky, you will have mandatory counseling and lose access to your kids. If unlucky. you will be convicted of “male assaults female” and be facing serious jail time.
Due to this vicious double standard, men need to drop women like a hot potato at the SLIGHTEST sign she is violent or abusive. Even if it is just verbal. If you put up with it, and she escalates, you are going to be in a world of hurt with no means to protect yourself.
I dated a woman for a short time who flew off the handle at me once for no reason. I walked away from her on our date and drove home, leaving her there. You can imagine the horrific phone calls and emails I got afterwards, but I simply told her “I do not put up with abuse, verbal or otherwise, and I don’t ever want to speak to you again.”
That’s the attitude men have to have. Even if she pleads for your forgiveness, buys you gifts, and promises to become your personal sex toy as a means of apology.
