When I was at high school and univerisity there were two mantras which were repeated, and sacrosant. The first was “ Girls can do anything “. The second was that all men are rapists.
Both judged me as evil simply for having a penis. Both made me quietly angry. But I was old enough by then to know to ignore this. Others were not as fortunate.
I and thousands of boys like me were institutionally bullied by feminists throughout our childhoods. Our schools and our teachers were working with the intention of removing the dangerous “masculine” characteristics that might interfere in the feminist paradigm — say, like getting married and wanting your wife to stay at home with the kids, or pursuing a “typical” and “traditional” male career path that might block some enterprising young woman from having that job. Free To Be You And Me epitomized feminism’s subtextual message to men: YOU ARE USELESS AND EVIL AND IN OUR WAY. Not “equality”, not “level playing field”, regardless of their intentions the result was a generation of self-loathing boys who resented girls and women for their perceived privileges even as we felt powerless and at the mercy of the whims of the adult women in our lives. Moms who didn’t give a damn what you thought about your new step-dad after a hypergamous divorce. Teachers who — no lie — told my six-year-old brother Lester in kindergarten that “it doesn’t matter if your mommy and daddy love each other, they’re just going to end up divorced”. That fucked Lester up for decades. Neighborhood ladies, mostly divorced themselves, who kept trying to give my mother good reasons to leave my dad even though they admired his fathering skills he was the only intact father in the neighborhood and discouraged her from getting us boys involved with Scouting because it was “sexist”.
All men are not rapists. To say otherwise is simply a lie, and it the classification of men as some kind of udermenschen is ethically indefensible.
And women cannot do everything. They require the threat of the law (which is in the end the law) to compete. They need the playing field leveled (unlike that most hated group, the white or asian male, of which I am a member). Besides, in a competitive environment, they cannot do everything.
For in this case the “white knights” are the men who keep covering for poor performance.
You know who the real white knights are?
The IT guy that works at the lowest rung and keeps his entire department afloat as female ‘supervisors’ and affirmative-action coworkers heap more and more of their jobs on his back.
The plumber that works 70+ hours a week at the nastiest jobs available so that he doesn’t have to stay on call at the shed and the girls his boss hired won’t have a chance to make fun of his ‘plumber’s crack’.
The executive who loses his long-delayed vacation because two days after he gets to fort lauderdale there’s an ‘emergency’ back at the office that caused his female coworker to have to take a ‘personal day’ because she ‘just couldn’t handle the stress’.
The Lawyer who is hospitalized for an ulcer because he has broken from the strain of trying to handle the workloads of three other female lawyers that simply refuse to put in the long hours necessary for the firm to win their cases.
The call center tech support guy that is making less than a burger-flipper, because his ‘team’ is made up of clueless girls that come and ask him every single question their customers ask them, constantly take ‘personal days’, and leave early or in tears after an abusive customer yells at them, and thus is the lowest-ranked team on the floor.
The man that is facing demotion or getting fired because he was working out an engineering problem in his head, and his vacant gaze happened to intercept one of the HR girls at for too long while he was thinking.
Well, it ain’t going to last. Most Western Governents are functionally bankrupt and many have stopped borrowing to meet deficits and instead are simply printing money. You cannot keep that fiction for ever.
And when the cuts really come. those who are not on the front line — making things or doing things — will disappear. When I started working my hospital was run by three people. It now has about 200 people involved in masturbatory micromanagement.
We forget that girls can do some things men cannot do. Conversely, men will progress at work because they do not need as much time away… and more sensible societies “write off” about 10-15 career years for women, having a ‘mommy track’ that allows women to contribute — often in tandem with men a decade or so younger than them.
To say that girls can do everything (But be moms at home ) but boys cannot (particularly be typical men) is ideological. It is false. It is damaging.
And, as we are passing the time of peak feminism, I hope that this bullying will end.
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