I think this ignores reality where love departs from one side of the equation. I can think of nothing worse than being shackled to the first wife that no longer had feelings or respect for me and flouted that. It was a relief to separate and doing so saved my life. I suspect my kids are grateful for the divorced dad rather than the dead dad.
I have that shirt. I’m another divorced Dad: in the end abandoned, and then had to get the kids out from that situation. It does mean that we have to have a lot of discernment. I
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