Comments on: The light is burning low. Blog on.

By: pukeko

Thu, 19 Mar 2015 05:26:29 +0000

@ Maggie: I strongly suggest you go over to Hearthie’s place and get connected with the TC women. I have links to many of them. Use them. In particular, look at the old Traditional Christianity site: married women talking about their husbands, some times with TMI. I’d also strongly advice you to talk to Mychael, Scott’s wife: they write “the courtship pledge”.

On p0rn: all men are tempted by it. Just as they look at that pretty girl. Besides it is cheap (read free) and there are “no emotional consequences”, compared with an affair or running multiple GFs.

The strongest anti porn advice out there is on the PUA sites because you have to be motivated (read horny) to approach. Most men however, are not PUAs: most men get the habit during their teens and twenties when they are being rejected by almost every girl they find cute, and it is a hard habit to kick. It is as hyperstimulating as chocolate.

They are scared to admit it to you because it is a threat point for churchian divorce.

Cure? Pray, be available. Make him sated. The penis does have a latency period.

On the other issue: Many a man has been converted by their wife’s behaviour without her saying a word. So pray some more.

And remember you are not responsible for him: as he is not responsible for you. We will stand before the almighty. All our lies will be stripped away, and we would be alone. But for Christ.

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By: Maggie

Thu, 19 Mar 2015 01:28:40 +0000

I’ve been wondering this myself; if the the husband doesn’t control himself in righteousness then who helps him see the error of his way? I don’t think it is the wife’s place, and I try not to be his authority, but if the husband thinks he doesn’t answer to anyone then what then? Pray that he stops looking at porn? What about lying straight to the wife’s face? I’ve been trying to figure this out for a long time now, all the while holding my tongue to not bring shame to him. I’ve prayed about it, I’ve spoken with him about it, I don’t know what to do.

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By: Scott

Tue, 03 Mar 2015 15:06:20 +0000

Not to sound too self-important, but I wonder if the archaeologists who dig up our society will find all these blogs and say “see here–there were people chronicling the decline of this civilization and no one was listening.”

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By: pukeko

Sat, 28 Feb 2015 04:19:27 +0000

Yes, it is

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By: Scott

Sat, 28 Feb 2015 02:30:39 +0000

Thanks for the link back.

I have had very limited reading of that one, which is strange. As a mental health professional telling my story in that system I would have thought it would be credible and get traction.

It is a miserable system.

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