& well, selfish and uncaring probably describes the majority of self-help bloggers on the internet. (The self help genre sure attracts a lot of con artists and weird Sciency-space-cults trying to sell hypnotism cds).
]]>And being fit, losing weight, having some confidence and having a goal for thie next while that does not include adding another woman to you list are all smart things for men to do. Regardless of how attractive they are to the feminine side of the street.
]]>