Comments on: Why I refuse to wear a white ribbon part 59. https://pukeko.net.nz/blog/2014/05/why-i-refuse-to-wear-a-white-ribbon-part-59/ Bleak Theology: Hopeful Science Mon, 12 Oct 2015 01:54:13 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=4.3.1 By: chrisgale https://pukeko.net.nz/blog/2014/05/why-i-refuse-to-wear-a-white-ribbon-part-59/comment-page-1/#comment-3639 Sat, 24 May 2014 23:18:00 +0000 https://pukeko.net.nz/blog/?p=4227#comment-3639 It’s twenty years ago. The woman was Gay Oakes, I got some of the details wrong.

Oakes has recently written a book while in prison Decline into Darkness in which she describes a life of beatings and mental torture at the hands of her de facto husband. She writes that Gardner stole money from her and continued to harrass her even though she had left him. Oakes’s fears of what he would do that night led her to drug his coffee with pills. She writes she did not intend killing him, she just wanted to put him to sleep to escape more abuse. After Gardner fell asleep, Oakes dragged him into her bedroom and left him on the floor, out of sight of her children so they would not be disturbed. She said Gardner was still breathing when she got up in the morning, but later, when she returned from shopping, he had died.

She wrote that she panicked, and she and a friend buried Gardner under a lean-to beside the garage on her property. Fourtee Oakes’ story is controversial, with her many supporters claiming she did not deserve life imprisonment because she was suffering from a condition known as Battered Women’s Syndrome.

Fourteen months later, after a tip-off, police exhumed Gardner’s remains. Oakes was charged with murder, was convicted and received the mandatory life imprisonment sentence. She unsuccessfully appealed, blaming Battered Women’s Syndrome for her actions. Lawyer Judith Ablett-Kerr is now acting for her and an appeal to the Governor General for intervention is proceeding.

Oakes’s efforts to avoid detection seem to have damaged her defence. Commentators say had she reported the death immediately the courts are likely to have treated her more kindly. However, her actions in burying Gardner rather than reporting his death did not earn sympathy, nor did her denial of any knowledge of Gardner’s whereabouts when interviewed by police soon after his death. Gardner’s family have participated in the media debate saying he was not the monster Oakes made him out to be.

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This case set the NZ precedent. Battered Women’s Syndrome is not a defence. But it’s controversial, and they want it to come back.

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By: tspoon https://pukeko.net.nz/blog/2014/05/why-i-refuse-to-wear-a-white-ribbon-part-59/comment-page-1/#comment-3638 Sat, 24 May 2014 19:50:00 +0000 https://pukeko.net.nz/blog/?p=4227#comment-3638 Hi Chris, who was the woman who tied her husband and burnt him to death? I was not familiar with that event.

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