I will not speak for most men, but for myself. I know, within a very short period of time, if I could oneitis a woman. If she is that attractive. I then start probing to see if she is honourable and testing to see how she reacts, and looks at her family. I have to discipline myself not to touch and sex up while I am doing that.
See Social Pathologist’s “Zen” post: http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2009/11/zen.html
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