How many churches today teach young women to
1) Be obedient to their husbands?
2) Be homemakers?
3) Be sexually available for their husbands?
4) Remain faithful until death to their marriage vows?
5) Take care of their own children?
If a woman is of even average looks but actually takes care of herself
physically (bmi under 24) and is committed to all of these things AND
maintains her sexual purity then she will have no shortage of Christian
men who want to marry her.The problem is that the church is full of womyn who have been taught that
1) Obedience is abuse
2) Homemakers are failures
3) Sex is a weapon to use against your husband
4) Fidelity is until you find someone better
5) Daycare is where your children go so you can keep your career.
The womyn who follow this model, show up to church on Sunday with two or
three little bastards in tow (or who have had multiple abortions), who
have performed sex acts that would have been illegal a generation ago
with double-digit numbers of men, and who are clinically obese yet
honestly believe they are God’s gift to men and that any good Christian
man would be lucky to have them. Why do they believe this? Because the
ear ticklers in the pulpit are more interested in feeding happy
hamsters than in dealing with the possible personal financial
consequences of telling them the truth.
The trouble is that there is no fellowship that does not have the weed of churchianity in it. None. Nowhere. And there probably has never been any — Paul had to tell the wimmenz to stop arguing in his letters. The reasons why I suggest the older, more traditional churches is that there are less ways and means for the modern heresies and ideologies to interfere with worship.
As an aside, I am not, not, not, a fan of home groups. The smell of therapeutic manipulation. I am a fan of personal disciplines and habits of worship, individually and within families.
The bigger error, in my view, is to not fellowship because the church is corrupt than it is to fellowship knowing that there will be corrupt people in the church. (I’m reformed. Did you expect me to argue otherwise?).
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