Comments on: There are no scare quotes about “guilt”.

By: Chris

Wed, 14 Mar 2012 22:02:32 +0000

Yes, and women get angry about this. Just put together the less nasty links on this from Dalrock… it got nasty over there.

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By: Feminism and Christian Man… | Dark Brightness

Wed, 14 Mar 2012 22:02:08 +0000

[…] those who take their vows seriously find the very fact that we have these conversations incomprehensible. So a woman could say “I’m unhappy, I wish my husband cheated on me…” file for divorce, […]

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By: Butterfly Flower

Tue, 13 Mar 2012 23:18:09 +0000

So a woman could say “I’m unhappy, I wish my husband cheated on me…” file for divorce, then get granted full custody? A judge would find her motive for divorce completely acceptable? [since it wouldn’t fall under the medical definition of crazy…]

No wonder MRA guys are so upset. Imagine being a normal, dedicated husband, only to be punished for your wife’s immature flighty selfishness…..

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By: empathologicalism

Tue, 13 Mar 2012 18:15:45 +0000

Good post, nice to see this spreading across the English speaking world. Have you ever wondered what it is about idiom that dove tails so nicely with evangelical feminism and gynocentrism? In my travels around the world I have noted with stark contrast that these things infect English speakers very differently than others….not exactly as in ….better….or…..worse…..but very differently

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By: Free from anxieties, not anxiety. | Dark Brightness

Mon, 12 Mar 2012 19:04:17 +0000

[…] the law is slippery in human hands. We stop using it as a guideline, but a source of justification for what we want. And then we feel guilty. For good reason. Guilt is also useful, as our conscience is guided by the […]

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By: Chris

Mon, 12 Mar 2012 18:47:51 +0000

No, this is not in the DSM IV. The closest are the personality disorders — and you need to be seriously hurting yourself or those around you to get one of those.

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By: Butterfly Flower

Mon, 12 Mar 2012 18:10:40 +0000

Let me get this straight: women are complaining about feeling remorse for their selfish, inconsiderate [& quite unChristian] behavior. Like, they are frustrated with their minds’ natural response to hurting others. They’d prefer to not possess a conscience. They wish they had someone else to blame [i.e. imaginary cheating husband] instead of themselves.

*blinks*

Chris, I realize this is your line of work: is the above-thought pattern listed somewhere in the DSM-IV? I mean, there has to be something clinically wrong with those women. Divorce will not cure their “unhaaaaappiness” – intense psychotherapy might. I’m not trying to excuse their behavior, it’s just – surely sane, normal people can’t think that way. Because if that isn’t the case, than that would mean we are living in a society where possessing a conscience is considered “less than ideal”. &, well, that’s just frightening.

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By: Chris

Mon, 12 Mar 2012 09:42:29 +0000

I talked about this a couple of days ago, and the post contains one of the relevant passages. See https://pukeko.net.nz/blog/2012/03/slavery-contentment-and-divorce/

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By: tspoon

Mon, 12 Mar 2012 09:00:11 +0000

I always though there was only one, adultery. Mind you it’s a while since I was a Christian (if I in fact ever was…). Do you mind my asking the biblical basis for divorce in the case of abandonment?

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