You need to realize that the anger men are expressing in the manosphere is a consequence of the current situation. When you have just been dumped, left in despair, and ruined by a woman you tend to generalize.

But the other part of analyzing the situation is that the consequences to women and children are equally noxious. There is a fair number of people — including the Ladies of Traditional Christianity — who argue that the patriarchy was less damaging.

Where I disagree is that people want the anger censored. This would be OK if the anger and rage of women is also seen as shameful and unseemly. However, it is celebrated.  If women call me pigs, they can expect it back. In spades.

Finally, the men tend to, in my experience, call each other out when they start talking shit.  At times it gets ugly. Let it. For the alternative will be revolution, and neither of us will like that.

I would just say be careful about who you ally yourself with, because while you seem reasonable in your demands, there are many “men’s rights activists” out there who aren’t as reasonable and I’ve run into a few that truly DO hate women — not the system. And associating with those people could cause your ideas to be ignored, which wouldn’t be good.