One of the things that I have been thinking about over the last two to three days is how do I advise my boys. Attached to that is how do I advise myself.
For we are all post pubertal, and we are all single. Now the Catholics would be quite firm here, and say that I, as a divorced man, should remain celibate. I would argue, like Calvin, that scripture does not support this tradition… but it does open up a slippery slope. I see friends, members of church, moving in with each other. Falling in love. Unlike son number one (who has not been struck by the arrow of Venus… yet) I miss the wounds of love. The secular “go your own way” meme is not helpful. I am a father: I have sons and daughters. And both are suffering.
Will then challenged me on what I meant by Christianity and Men’s Rights. On reflection, the answer is exactly the same as for feminist Christianity — when you speak and practice falsehood, you are in error.
Revelation 22:14-21
14Blessed are those who wash their robes, so that they will have the right to the tree of life and may enter the city by the gates. 15Outside are the dogs and sorcerers and fornicators and murderers and idolaters, and everyone who loves and practices falsehood.
16“It is I, Jesus, who sent my angel to you with this testimony for the churches. I am the root and the descendant of David, the bright morning star.” 17 The Spirit and the bride say, “Come.” And let everyone who hears say, “Come.” And let everyone who is thirsty come. Let anyone who wishes take the water of life as a gift. 18I warn everyone who hears the words of the prophecy of this book: if anyone adds to them, God will add to that person the plagues described in this book; 19if anyone takes away from the words of the book of this prophecy, God will take away that person’s share in the tree of life and in the holy city, which are described in this book. 20The one who testifies to these things says, “Surely I am coming soon.” Amen. Come, Lord Jesus!
Matthew 18:21-22
21Then Peter came and said to him, “Lord, if another member of the church sins against me, how often should I forgive? As many as seven times?” 22Jesus said to him, “Not seven times, but, I tell you, seventy-seven times.
There are two big errors that we commit. The first is that we take it all far to personally. We forget that we are sinners and we will inevitably be in error. The truth that is hidden in the idea that the church is infallible (a rank heresy) is that we cannot see our own errors.
But yesterday the comments here became name calling. Now, I am not blaming BF, Will, Lacey or anyone else. It is human nature and can occur across denominations. We can become condemnatory and legalistic.
Two examples of this error will help. This one is clearly Catholic
The validity of the Protestant Episcopal orders was an object of a serious controversy. Leo XIII solemnly declared that the ordinations of the Anglican confession were invalid, and therefore, the sacraments ministered there are without value. If this is true with regard to the Anglicans, something similar would apply to the other Protestant sects who accept bishops. It is absolutely certain that the declaration of Leo XIII is rigorously applied to the Presbyterian and Anabaptist sects, since they, by not admitting bishops, are “ipso facto” incapable of having valid episcopal ordinations. Thus the baptism that exists among the Episcopalians, of which the Lutherans are a branch, is a motive of very serious doubt. This is why, up until Vatican II, when the Catholic Church received a converted Lutheran, a new conditional Baptism was administered. Hence, there is an element of uncertainty in the Protestant baptism.
Therefore, the common renewal of the vows of Baptism made by Catholics and followers of Luther in Augsburg ignores what was described above and takes as a consummated fact the “validity” of the Protestant baptism. This is equivalent to stating that the prior tradition of the Holy Church has no effect. This act carries a series of grave consequences:
- it supposes a true apostolic succession among the Lutheran bishops; it supposes the validity of their sacraments;
- it leads one to accept as valid the “sacraments” of the more radical Protestant sects.
Each of these consequences would be sufficient to declare a person or a movement heretical or suspect of heresy, were the old Code of Canon Law still in place. Incidentally, according to the Code, the simple participation in the same religious ceremony with heretics merited a very rigorous excommunication, an automatic excommunication, without need of any declaration by the authority.
Well, this Presbyterian is quite Calvinist and does not accept apostolic succession. But we can be just as much in error
There is no other head of the Church but the Lord Jesus Christ: nor can the Pope of Rome in any sense be head thereof; but is that Antichrist, that man of sin and son of perdition, that exalteth himself in the Church against Christ, and all that is called God.
OK, that is error one.
Error two is more subtle. I mentioned it yesterday, and it is the whispering of falsehood. For men they include “She will take all your money and remove your children. She will divorce you”, or “you will support children that are not yours”, or “you will work your butt into the grave to support her sitting at home eating bon-bons”. For women, it is that “You are a special person, and wonderful, and you deserve the very best man in the world” (the sex in the city meme) and “He will not understand your need for development and spirituality. You need to find yourself. It will all work out for the best”. (The eat, pray, love meme).
These memes are wrong. When you add the PUA “All women want it, and all women are interchangeable if you know game”. then you have a toxic environment.
Let’s come back to today’s lectionary. Those who practice falsehood will not enjoy the perfection to come in Christ. We are told to come to Christ.
But we are also told to forgive each other. If we know our church history, and how the church has moved, like a drunken sailor, in and out of error and returning to orthodoxy, we can work together without too much disagreement. If we are honest, we will know that we have hurt people unfairly. The blood of god covers much, God accepts our honest doubts, questions and errors.
He cannot accept us turning reality into a distortion, a lie. For that places us in the centre of creation, damages those among us — and leads to the kind of fragile personalities I see in the emergency room at work. After overdoses and self lacerations..